Let’s get this undeniable fact out in the open - sex is a major part (and definitely one of the best perks) of adulting. We should never have to be apologetic for pleasure. Adulthood is as it is; hard enough - so orgasms can definitely help with your sanity and keeping that anxiety down. So what do you do when it’s that time of the month and you could really use some sex to blow off steam? You have sex. Yes ladies, don’t think that you can’t have fun when you are on your period. All you gotta do is keep some pointers in mind before you sail away to bliss!

Facts (that you should not neglect):

• You can get pregnant when you have period sex. Even though the chances are slim, it’s possible.
• Always make sure to use a condom to avoid infections caused due to bacteria entering your uterus because your uterus is vulnerable during your periods.

Tips for Steamy Period Sex:

1. Cover your bed: Period sex can be extremely messy depending on how heavy your flow is on that particular day. Avoid staining your mattress by using a towel or extra sheets that you can easily throw for a wash. The aim is to have fun, not stress about the stains!
2. Grossed out by all that blood? If the period blood makes you squeamish, don’t feel compelled to have sex. However, if you want to feel that true pleasure that everyone always talks about after having period sex, you could always get extra kinky with a blindfold on so that you don’t see the blood. Or you could also turn out the lights.
3. Want to avoid the mess? If you want to avoid the messiness of period sex completely but don’t want to compromise on the pleasure, you could try shower sex. The water will wash away the unwanted mess and you don’t have to worry about staining your bed!
4. What positions are best? Usually the pelvis is most relaxed during the Missionary position and while spooning, so if you’re cramping, go easy on your pelvis and try these out. It’s okay for your partner to do the work once in a while! But if cramps aren’t an issue, you do you – take charge if you want!
5. Plug the blood: If you’re apprehensive about trying out period sex full force for the first time, you can manage the period blood with a menstrual cup. If you need to take things slow, its okay! Ease into it so that you are comfortable.
6. Focus on the neglected erogenous zones: Yes, we know the main zone that needs stimulation. However, you can indulge in some foreplay to get you in the mood before diving into the act. Focus on stimulating the other erogenous zones like the ear lobes, neck, stomach and feet.

Advantages Of Period Sex:

There are several advantages of having period sex!

• Your period will be shorter – orgasms cause muscle contraction which helps hasten shedding of the uterine lining.
• Less painful cramps – if you are struggling with painful cramps, an orgasm may help ease them! Yes, the muscle contractions and release caused by an orgasm helps the muscles ease – additionally let’s not forget about the “feel good” endorphins triggered by sex.
• You’re all lubed up – the period blood acts as a natural lubricant that makes sex super pleasurable. Try it and you’ll see what we’re talking about!
• Relieve headaches – though it is not understood exactly why sex helps relieve headaches, several studies have verified that this is true. Researchers speculate the release of endorphins may help reduce the pain.

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